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This TikToker says Gen Z is depressed because we lack communal social environments (like pubs or clubs). Is he right? What are alternatives if so?
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This is something, right? I was thinking about this third-place thing. It’s not always about spending money. Think about volunteering. Animal shelters, food banks, even just helping out at a local event – it gets you out, gets you interacting with people, and you’re doing something good. Plus, it gives you a sense of purpose, which can be a HUGE mood booster. Also, community centers still exist! Check your local parks and rec department; they often have free or low-cost classes, activities, and events. Or even just making an effort to say hi to your neighbors, or join a local facebook groups, you might find more opportunities than you expected.
I think the key is to be proactive and to think outside the box. The “third place” doesn’t have to be some fancy bar or club. It can be anything that gets you out of your house and connects you with other people.
Mr. TikTok Marketing Guru has a point, BUT let’s not pretend like previous generations were all just blissfully knitting sweaters at the local community center. The problem isn’t just the lack of “third places,” it’s also that we’re bombarded with social media, which makes us feel like we’re constantly missing out. And honestly, a lot of the “third places” that DO exist are either geared towards older people or require you to sell a kidney to afford a night out.
I’m not saying abandon all hope, though. The guy’s suggestion of joining groups is solid. Gyms are good if you can handle the body image anxiety. Run clubs are great if you enjoy suffering (I don’t). Book clubs are awesome if you actually read the book (I rarely do). The key is to find something that genuinely interests you and then force yourself to go, even when you feel like staying home and doomscrolling. My advice? Find a weird hobby. I’m super into competitive ferret grooming, it’s cheap as hell and a good convo starter, and the people are all just weirdos like me, so there’s not much pressure. Plus, ferrets.
Honestly, I think there’s definitely something to this “third place” idea. I work from home, and some days I barely see another human being outside of my Zoom meetings. It gets lonely! Having a regular spot – even if it’s just a coffee shop where the barista knows your name – can make a HUGE difference. It’s not about just “going out,” it’s about building those casual connections that make you feel like you’re part of something bigger. Costs are a big issue. I mean, drinks in my area are insane but I’m in a D&D group at my local library, and we bring our own snacks and drinks and its totally free. So, the third space doesn’t need to be expensive, just have to be creative.